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A Bundle of Myrrh

"My beloved is unto me as a bundle of myrrh." Song of Solomon 1:13

An email from Morgan

October 24th, 2009 by Aubri

Me and Morgan c. 2006 (life was rough back then)
Thank you so much for sending me the link to your secret parenting blog. I began to read it tonight and so appreciate learning more about your life now. I miss you! I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately, smiling about how much our lives have changed. Walt and I went to La Zona Rosa this week to see a show. Our first in a year since the girls. It was stark how much our lives and hearts have been transformed since the last time I was there — with you for Ray Benson’s birthday bash. While I remember it fondly, I don’t miss that time or long for it again. But I do miss and long for you!
Ah, parenting two girls. We’ve had ours for almost a year now. That’s hard to believe. But when you see the difference in all four of us it seems much longer. They sure do become an inseparable part of you, don’t they? With all the challenges, I can imagine it no other way.
Keep writing, and please, keep sharing.
I love you!
Morgan
I often think about how much life for me and my gaggle of girlfriends has changed in the last two years. We’re all grown up and married with children or with children on the way. As someone said to me and Phil once that in a year he went “from swingin’ and single to married with children”. That can happen faster than I once thought possible! It’s funny how you can think that life will never change for you, you’ll be stuck in one situation forever then pow, it all changes at once or as it is many times little changes over time make life so different you look back one day and wonder what happened! My life the way it is now, makes my single days seem like a strange weird life in another world but some days I can remember that life like it was yesterday. I agree with what Morgan said above, I can look back with some fondness but I wouldn’t want to go back to it that’s for sure. Sure it was nice to be able to go out when I wanted with no need to find a babysitter and not have to drive 45 miles to get Starbucks but I didn’t have my man or my precious babies then either! I don’t even want to imagine life without them! It’s a struggle when Phil and I do on occasion go out without the girls. When just the 2 of us go out it’s so nice not have to dress me and 2 little people, make sure everything in our house is transferred to the diaper bag, get the girls in the car and get the girls out of the car but there’s always a strange thought in the back of my mind that I’m missing something. It’s so good to have a break from being “mama” all day everyday, but this has become my life, being a wife and a mama full time and as tiring and trying as it can be, I don’t want anything else….except my friends back! I sure miss you ladies!

One Response to “An email from Morgan”

  1. btroll says:

    Well said, both my friends! I miss ya'll all, too!