A Bundle of Myrrh

Phil and I have started to read the small catechism to the girls at each meal time. We’ve started with The Lord’s Prayer taking the Introduction at breakfast, the 1st Petition at lunch and the 2nd Petition at supper. We’ve tried to do this everyday throughout October and in November we’ll move on to Petitions 3-5. At this time they’re obviously too young to understand what we’re saying but I wanted to begin to familiarize them with these words or sounds or whatever it is children at their age are capable of learning.

I know Lily already recognizes Luther’s evening prayer and the Lord’s Prayer since we’ve been praying them every night before bedtime for sometime now. At church when we begin to pray the Lord’s prayer she looks around and smiles. I’m just glad she doesn’t start crying thinking we’re all about to go “night-night”. I think it’s important to begin even at this age teaching God’s Word to our children and letting it be a normal part of our daily life. They really do pickup so much more than we think. Their understanding of it will come in time.

Phil sent this quote from Luther to me.
“The more ardently parents love their children, the severer their discipline is. … But paternal love and pity demand blows, whips, and stripes, in order that children may be improved, even though this cannot be done without pain and grief.“

Ouch!

And this German Proverb: “The dearer the child, the sharper the rods.”

I believe it’s time that our “disciplining” Lily took on a different flavor. For several months I’ve used the firm “no” and redirection. Lily is now really testing her limits. She thinks it’s so fun to see how far she can go. She really gets a kick out of seeing my get on to her. When she hit Clara in the face and I popped her hand she just laughed at me. At her age, I just don’t know how to make her understand that something is wrong and she can’t do it. I read that I should pick a few things at a time to teach her are not acceptable and prioritize what you ‘discipline’ her over. So far smacking Clara is probably the biggest ‘no no’ and I guess I’ll stick with removing her to the corner or her crib to teach her that. She seems to get very upset when we take that route.