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A Bundle of Myrrh

"My beloved is unto me as a bundle of myrrh." Song of Solomon 1:13

Archive for the ‘What I’m Reading’ Category

Ice Cream With the Dog

Saturday, March 29th, 2014

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“After my first baby I stopped sterilizing everything. Toys which had been kicked under the sofa and retrieved by the dog were cheerfully chewed on by the toddlers who thrived under conditions which would have horrified the health department.

It only took about three toddlers for me to realize that a baby who crawls all over the floor and then sucks his thumb, without dying from dysentery, will not be contaminated by sharing an ice-cream cone with the dog”

Teresa Bloomingdale I Should Have Seen It Coming When The Rabbit Died

A Gracious, Bending Woman

Monday, March 24th, 2014

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“Be there for them with a vengeance. Be a gracious, bending woman. Incline your ear, your heart, your hands to them. Be found warm and comfortable, and disposed to affection. Be ready to be done by and to welcome their casual effusions with something better than preoccupation and indifference.

Robert Farrar Capon Bed and Board

 

The Office of Mother Part I

Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

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First of all have any of you noticed that I’m turning into a Posting Machine! I think I’m finally coming out of the Pregnancy and Post-partum malaise that I spend the majority of my life in. I’m working out, watching what I eat and most days getting things done!

But enough of that, on with the post that got WAY too long so now it’s a 2 parter.

This Fall I read Family Vocation: God’s Calling in Marriage, Parenting and Childhood by Gene Edward Veith Jr. I recommend it. He made some very comforting points in his chapter on The Office of Motherhood. I wanted to share a few.

I also wanted to talk a bit of what I’m learning in my office of mother. I don’t consider myself a fount of wisdom, I’m still very much in survival mode of parenting (maybe that never changes….), in the trenches of life with littles and just trying to figure it all out. But for what it’s worth I thought I’d discuss a few things I’m being taught in this vocation.

This post may be more helpful for the overwhelmed Mama…. (more…)

Tend to Me

Sunday, January 26th, 2014

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“It was on one of these Sundays, when we made it to the pew and I was mentally congratulating myself on another successful Sunday morning marathon completed, with all children in their places, and not one missing his pants.

My crew and I lined up in front of the church for communion. I placed the most wiggly child directly in front of me, folded his hands, and folded mine on top of his. That is when I saw….blue fingers-mine, not his. Bright blue fingers stained with yesterday’s Kool-Aid.

I reached out my blue hand to receive, and couldn’t help but notice the hands that gave me Jesus: they also were stained. Not Kool-Aid, but earth stained the elder’s fingers. And there was my God: held by cracked and callused fingers, and placed gently in my hands. Body and Blood, given for me, humbled to die on a cross, humbled to be held by fingers stained with work and sin.” From Tend to Me Devotions for Mothers by Emily Cook

I loved this example Emily gives in her book Tend To Me. It reminded me that God comes to all of us, in our sin. Giving Himself to each of us in our different vocations. I also love that our hands can tell stories of what God has given us to do. Some of us have work that leaves a mark on our bodies. Bodies that God has redeemed. I look at my hands dry, wrinkly and cracked from so much washing. And I look in admiration at the earth stained hands of many of the farmers in my congregation. I just hope they might look with similar admiration at my hands should they ever bear the marks of….blue Kool-Aid!