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A Bundle of Myrrh

"My beloved is unto me as a bundle of myrrh." Song of Solomon 1:13

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The Fatherhood of God in an Age of Emancipation

Saturday, August 14th, 2010

Here is a sermon on Hebrews 12:4-11.

There is a book in my library entitled The Fatherhood of God in an Age of Emancipation, by W. A. Visser ‘t Hooft (Westminster Press, 1982).  It is a fascinating study on how society has moved away from any form of authority.  It highlights how we live in a different world than when the Bible was written.

For example, we don’t have kings with unlimited authority.  Governments are often told what to do by citizens, rather than the other way around.  Slavery, which was common in biblical times, is now unthinkable.  To say the husband is head of the wife, might be called slavery and abuse today.  People claim to be free to chose their sex instead of having it chosen for them.  We have even been freed from absolute morals, we are told.  What do all these have in common?  They are all part of the process of emancipation—the freeing from a higher authority.

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The Importance of Being Feminine

Sunday, May 30th, 2010


It’s important to take special care to maintain femininity. Especially in our culture which seems to be doing away with all distinctions of gender. I don’t want my girls to ever fall for the lies the world has to offer on this issue. Men and women are different. Women can’t do anything a man can do. And this isn’t just ok, it’s very good. It’s God’s wonderful design, He has created a divine order whether we like it or not. I want my daughters to like it.I want them to be certain that God made them little women and to seek to please Him in their “womaness”. I want them to enjoy being little girls for as long as they can then become the little ladies, the little women, that God in His goodness has made them. I want them to look forward to the rewards that God gives only to women and may someday give to them; submitting to their husbands, bearing and raising children, taking care of their home by making it a place of love, cleanliness, order, kindness and simple pleasures.

I want them to be feminine in the ways they behave, dress and speak, with modesty and politeness. Even if they grow up only wanting to play baseball, skinning their knees and hating baths, I still expect their character to be of godly ladies.

Of course I know all of this begins with ME! So it is my goal to be more aware of my own gifts of femininity, guard them and demonstrate them to my little ladies. Many of these gifts come so naturally to us women, we don’t even think about them but some are so maimed with our sin we can be very careless in neglecting them or even denying them.

There are so many simple things I can do to begin teaching the girls the delights of womanhood. I’ll admit some are not so simple, it’s not always easy to submit, to “love” being pregnant, enjoy rearing children or keeping a clean home, and everyone at our house knows how much I love frumpy stained t-shirts and sweatpants, but I want to do a better job at emphasizing the joys over the burdens and the beauty over the blah.

“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful.” 1 Peter 3

Preserving a Christian Home III

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Read Bible Stories to your children, sing hymns and pray with them.
Ever since I have attended college I have observed children of pastors, church workers, and Lutheran school graduates that weren’t interested in talking theology. Indeed, I observed they didn’t know much theology. Quite often the children would know the church politics and gossip more than they did about what the Bible taught. This is nothing new. Laache: Book of Family Prayer was published 1884. The first week of Epiphany, Laache urges parents to pray for their children. He points out it is so sad when we observe children of Christian parents leave the faith. Laache asserts that the parents did not faithfully pray for them. This is one reason I am so keen in talking theology with my children. So I urge parents as well to teach and sing hymns and pray with their children. This is also talking theology.
God rewards parents who read and teach their children to treasure God’s Word. Your children learn to talk theology, especially with you. This gives them confidence in God’s Word. God wants all His children to turn to Him in everyway. When children see their parents humble themselves under God’s Word and tender care, the reward is great. . Only God’s Word and the Sacraments can give this confidence. The Marks of the Church. The B-I-B-L-E. The Preached Word. Holy Baptism. The Lord’s Supper. That is all we have to offer our children and it is our duty to do it and be confident that God will be faithful in what He has offered for us to give to our children. Hymns are prayers to God. These hymns keep us mindful of what God has done for us in Jesus and we pray with thankfulness and for strength. Pray for your children.

Preserving a Christian Home by Dorothy Preus

Preserving a Christian Home II

Saturday, May 15th, 2010


God gave these children to mothers and fathers to care and nurture. It is not anybody else’s responsibility. It is so easy in this world to think that somebody else is going to teach skills, religion, and anything else that needs to be for the children. There is an expert for everything and for everyone!!! The church has unwittingly failed to respect and encourage parents in their role for their children. We have Sunday schools to teach Bible stories to the children. This is good. Are the parents teaching Bible stories to them at home? Are the parents attending Bible class while the children are in Sunday school? In everything parents do and say, they are teaching their children.

Parents should not abdicate their responsibilities in teaching their children the Word of God. Our culture is suffering from a couple of generations or more where parents have abdicated their responsibilities for their children to the state, church, and school, public or private. Our churches should be bursting at the seams and busy setting up mission churches all over the world because the children have been taught the way of salvation. But sadly, the children have not always learned the Law and the Gospel. The children have not had impressed upon them that the church is there to provide the forgiveness of sins in the Word and Sacraments. So they have left the church, or have gone to a “feel good” church. After all they sing those fun songs too. It makes them feel good. What have they been taught? Self-esteem or humility? Were they taught sin, repentance, and Jesus’ blood on the cross for sinners?

Preserving a Christian Home by Dorothy Preus